I do not beleive in zero tolerance when it comes to relations. Zero itself is a symbol of emptyness, presense of anything. When we have already established a fact that no one is perfect then zero tolerance would cross out everyone around us if we were to follow this criteria. At the same time, I beleive three strikes out is too flexible a choice to adopt in a relationship. So the middle choice is two. Give everyone a second chance but if you give them more than two chances then you will become the victim at that point. Because if you think you are giving a person three chances before you move on then think of it from the other person's perspective. They hit you not once, twice but also got the chance to strike thrice then you are nothing but merely stupid. So even if it works out later, it would be a relation between a stupid and a selfish. Who could hurt someone again and again and again, none but a selfish person indeed.

A person like anything else goes through several changes in life physically, mentally and emotionally. We may react to different situations differently at different times. The personality and character of a person does not change but remains the same although he may not be showing and adhering to it at times and the bottom line is that a person remains the same. We should not judge a person or conclude the personality based on what we see at a given time. It is possible that a person if put in to a character or role and act totally different from what we expect out of his personality. But that does not necessarily means he is changed. Just like human body parts can grow and form shapes to certain extent for certain period of time and then they only go through minor changes over the course of life, the same is true about personality. Some people when they get a dry skin, uses moisturizers to keep it soft and shiny while other just don't care about it and end up with really dry skin or even worst, their skin looks dead. Know a person with skin, condition of the skin could change but the person is still the same. Life is too short to know each and every one around us completely and very well. So those you know very well already, you have actually invested your valuable time on them. Don't loose them easily.

There is nothing important and beautiful in life than having a wonderful family. Just like we prioritize our tasks at work place, one should prioritize matters in one's life as well. Family should be given more importance than work. Because we do the later for the former and not the otherway around. Live with less money but do not live alone.

We sometimes come across a situation of conflict between love and doing the right thing. My approach would be to do the right thing first and then consider love. If you sacrifice your love for the sake of doing the right thing then your love will always cherish and be praised within yourself. You will not necessarily be unhappy. But, if you choose not to do what is right but what is in your heart only, then chances are that you may regret all your life for not doing what was right and should have been done. This feeling of guilt will effect your wrong decision too.

If you can buy peace of mind with money then go for it. Sometime we come to a point where we have a choice of peace of mind by spending a little extra money. Do not save penny or even dollars when it comes to peace of mind versus savings. This lesson I have learned by seeing different things that happens in my life and around. Life brings you so many surprises and challenges and some among these becomes worries and troubles. So even if you are upto challenges and hardnut person, let life throws its pitches on to you and you would have enough fun with it. Why create your own.!!
If you can get rid of some worries in life with money. Go for it.
If you can buy peace of mind in life with money. Go for it.
The best use of money is to spend it. Generously but wisely.

One should always listen to others. May be they all are wrong at all times but gives you another perspective and view.


Do always as you please but always listen to others. Just remember this one point in your mind when listening to other people advise "I know I am doing the right thing. I know what I am doing BUT what if there is a 1% chance that what others are saying is right then where does it put me then" may clear up another hidden view for you.